A picture is worth a thousand words, but her smile is worth the World! I have written a little about this before but one thing that means the most to me is Mabel's laugh, her happy and sparkling eyes, and her smile. No matter what, those three things are my gauge to know her heart.
Likewise, there are three other important things that we both hold dear in our lives and in our relationship. (1) Honesty and Transparency; to truly be open and not withhold anything from each other. It is my sincere hope and goal that we both openly share our failures, frustrations, and hurts to each other, but also share our triumphs, successes, and laughs together. I have always wanted to marry my best friend and truly give her everything; my today, tomorrow, and especially my whole heart. (2) Taking time to connect - having quality time together. We cannot get too busy...no one ever says they wished they had worked longer hours so they could miss time with their family/spouse. It will always be the opposite. Most everyone wants more time with what matters, family/love/spouse. Question: how are we spending our time? We want to spend ours together, as much as possible. This last time we got to see each other, our new expression we learned was, "there is never enough time". That is what we want, more time with each other, always. (3) Our three F's: Friendship, Forgiveness, and Faithfulness. As I said above, I have always wanted to marry my best friend. I am sure most everyone does. I am thankful for her. She wants to be my best friend, share in every part of my life, and I with her as well. If I participate in anything, I want her to be my cheerleader. If she wants to participate in anything, I want to be her cheerleader as well. A true partnership together. We all know no one is perfect. Forgiveness and faithfulness are critical in any relationship. These are two things which we cannot deviate from because they are both anchors for Trust. Giving oneself wholly to your spouse is the greatest present one can give, YOU. I will give her all of me, and I know and trust she will give her all too. My best friend, my partner, and my today & tomorrow, ALWAYS.
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Author(s):Kevin and Mabel are a Ameri-Pino couple. He is American and she is Filipino. These are our thoughts and reflections about our lives and relationship together. Archives
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