If you read many of the headlines around the world, it doesn't take long to realize how crazy life is around us. If there is one certainty in life, it's that it is very uncertain. We do not know what tomorrow may hold. Thus the question, shouldn't life with our "better half" be a haven of safety, security and love?
One thing I love about my beautiful Mabel is the fact of her need to be loved by ME. As a man, I want to provide her the three most important things in her life. 1. Assurance of my love for her and my commitment to her. 2. Consistency in my family leadership; spiritually, emotionally, physically, and financially. 3. Confirmation that I will take care of her. (Her safety and security when we are together (and apart)). Marriage and relationships are one of the greatest gifts God has given to man and woman. The privilege of having someone by your side to share life with. Marriage is supposed to be a taste of heaven, here on Earth, together. Having someone to confide in and to share our triumphs and failures with. Having someone to love and to love us, unashamedly and wholeheartedly, without hindrance or hesitation. My life's pledge to her is to always be my best and give my best. I want to make our relationship a true taste of heaven for her. To love unashamedly and never withhold my affection from her. It is my responsibility to ensure that we communicate with each other completely - never any secrets or dishonesty. I, WE, must talk and communicate with each other...WHY? because neither one of us can read each others mind. My life responsibility is love her with all I have everyday, one day at a time, to protect US and OUR relationship. In marriage, being a servant leader means ensuring that the wife’s material, emotional and spiritual needs are met. I should respect, affirm and love her at all times. A great husband loves his wife unconditionally and is a servant leader just like Christ.
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Author(s):Kevin and Mabel are a Ameri-Pino couple. He is American and she is Filipino. These are our thoughts and reflections about our lives and relationship together. Archives
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